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翻译原文:Things you need to learn 原文作者:Stephen Downes 翻译:Danny Yu 以下是我的清单。这是在我眼里,一个人期待成功需要学习的东西。这些东西你可以今年就开始学习,无论你几年级,也无论你多大年纪。很明显,我可以就这些题目写更多内容。但请将这些内容作为起点,跟随我的建议,自己去学习吧。对教育者,我想,如果你没有在你的课堂里教授过它们,为什么不去试试呢? 1.如何预测结果 最常见的一种尴尬是“我从来没有想过……”。是的,大多数人都非常不善于预测结果,学校也似乎从来没有考虑过如何帮助他们提高这种能力。 对结果的预测,部分依靠科学、部分依靠数学,还有一部分则依靠一种预见能力。综合来说,这是一种创建思维模型的能力。我们依靠这种能力去想象其后会发生的事件:“如果……,将会发生什么呢?” 这种情况的危险性在于把注意力集中到了“你想发生什么”,而不是“会发生什么”上。例如,当你准备要跳过一条沟渠,你可能会想象自己落到了另外一边。这很好,想像会帮助你进行成功的跳跃。但你同样需要预见到如果你没有落到另一边时的情境。那时又将会发生什么呢?你是否设想过从40米高处跌落的结果吗? 这就是数学和科学起作用的地方。你需要比较眼前的情况和你过去的经验,计算出不同结果的可能性大小。例如,你正准备跳一条5米长的沟,你应该问问自己:“我有多少次成功越过5米沟的经验?我失败了多少次?”如果你不知道,你可以在平地上进行一次试跳,你应该就可以对你的情况有足够的了解了。 人们不会提前去思考。但当你在学校时,你应该时时抓住机会问自己“接下来会发生什么?”观察你身边的情况和环境与你的互动,预测结果会是什么。将你的预测写下来或者写到blog里去。通过练习,你将会成为预测结果的专家。 时间长了,情况会变得越来越有趣,你将开始观察到模式、常见现象,以及一些有助于对结果进行预测的事情。比如,东西掉下,玻璃被打碎。当受到侵犯时,人们会发怒。热的东西温度会下降。狗有时会咬人。公共汽车或者火车,有时会晚点。这类常见的现象,通常被称为“常识”,将帮助你避免错误的,有时甚至会有损害的结果预测。 2.如何阅读 你可能觉得很奇怪,在这里我没有指传统意义上的“文化”,我指的是,如何去阅读文字,然后更深入地去“理解”它代表着什么(这同样适用在声音和影像领域,但在文字领域上先打下基础,即便不是完全能够,也可以相对容易地传递到其他领域去)。 写作的四种主要形式是:描述、议论、说明和定义。你要通过学习观察“标志”以及关键词,来学习如何识别这些不同的写作类型。 然后,你需要学习句子是怎样组合以形成这些写作类型。例如,一篇议论文包括两个主要部分,前提和结论。结论是作者试图证明的观点,它一定会有一个标志性的连接词(象“因此”、“所以”、“从而”这些词)来体现。 大量的文章充斥着无用的文字,只是为了让作者看上去显得很有学问,转移你的注意力,或者只是为了填充更多的空间。能够绕开不重要的细节,直达作者真正想表达的意思,不分心,这是一种重要的能力。 尽管你的学校从来没有教你这些,去找一本关于讲授非正式逻辑学的基础书(这些书或许会叫“批判性思维”或其他类似的名字)。在书中找到议论文的格式和连接词(通常这类书都不会涵盖其他三种写作类型),在文章中和老师上课时所说的话中,练习找到这些连接词。你可以每一天聚焦一个连接词,观察它是怎样在现实中被运用的。 3.如何区分虚构与事实 在其他地方,我就这个主题已经写了很多,毫无疑问,这是被学校极大地忽略了的领域。有时我怀疑这是因为老师感到他们的学生必须毫无选择性地吸收知识,如果学生们对每件事提出疑问,老师会说,他们从不学习! 学习的第一件事就是对你被告知、你所读到、和你在电视上所看到的东西提出疑问。不要全盘接受你被告诉的东西。要不断发问:你怎么能证明知道它是真的?什么证据使你认为那错的? 我写过几篇文字,对你理解这点有帮助,包括我的“逻辑谬误导论”和关于“如何评估网站”。这些原理普遍适用。比如,当你的老板对你说什么时,你可以用文章中原理做同样的测试。你可能会惊奇地发现,你老板对你说的竟然有那么多是不真实的! 每天给自己找一段信息(一个报纸的专栏、一篇blog帖子、一份讲课稿)详细分析。分析没个句子、每个词,问问自己你被期待去相信什么,你被期待感受什么。然后问问自己是否有充足的理由让你去这样相信和感受,是否你是被别人操纵了。 4.如何移情 绝大多数人生活在他们自己的世界里,这在大多数时候是没有错的。但是,我们至少要认识到这个世界上还有其他人存在着,他们也活在他们自己的世界中。这可以防止你错误地以为,其他每一个人都和你一样。更加重要的是,这会使他人成为一个令你惊奇的知识和洞见来源。 这个过程的一部分包括从他人的视角去看待事物。例如一个与你生活在不同地方的人。他们可能不会看到你所看到的,也可能看到你看不到的东西。认知上的这种转变可能会改变他们相信的东西,能够意识到这一点是非常重要的。 但更为深刻的是,你需要去想像别人的感受。这意味着,你必须在自己的大脑中创造一个其他人的想法和受觉的模型,然后把自己放到那个模型中去。要作到这一点,最佳的方式是想像你就是那个人,将自己放到他的具体情境中去。 或许,学会换位思考的最好方式是研习戏剧。(关于戏剧,我并不是指研究莎士比亚,而是指如何在戏剧中表演。)遗憾的是,学校没有将这部分作为核心课程之一。所以,退而求其次,你得学习像宗教、心理学这样的科目。然而很多学校实际上也没有这些课程,所以,你最每天至少花一点时间去玩玩各种角色扮演游戏(RPGs),让你自己去扮演有着不同的信仰和动机的他人。 移情时,你将理解并且找到能帮助你逾越与他人间隔阂的方式。例如,这时变得礼貌和周到就对你更加重要。因为你能体会到当你粗鲁对待别人时,他们所受到的伤害。同样,变得诚实更加重要,因为你开始看到你的谎言是多么显而易见,被别人当作一个轻易就能蒙骗的傻瓜是多么让人愤怒。 移情并不是某种交易。它也不是人际交往中类似于“黄金规则”等技巧(注:圣经中的……“己所不欲,勿施于人”)的应用。它是真情实感,当你与他人同步感受时,通过你同步的精神状态,你了解了他们。你彬彬有礼是因为当别人粗鲁地对待你时你不好受;你诚实待人是因为当你撒谎时你觉得受了冒犯。 你需要去学习如何拥有这种感觉。你一旦拥有了这种感觉,你就会发现,没有她以前,你的生命是多么得苍白。 5.如何有创意 每个人都有创造力,如果你仔细看看你自己的生活,你会发现你已在很多地方有创意了。人类有一种自然的创造能力――那正好是我们大脑工作的方式――通过练习,这种能力可以变得非常强大。 增强创造力的窍门是理解创造力是如何工作的。有时人们认为创意的点子是无中生有地产生的,但创造性实际上是熟练而巧妙地以某种形式来运用你的知识的结果。 真正的创意几乎总是存在于对某个事物的反应之中。比如我的这篇文章就是为了回应一篇我认为还没有说透的同一主题的文章。创意也会在对特定问题的回应中产生:怎样救治一只猫,如何通过一个沟渠,如何悬挂衣服。所以,为了更有创意,要做的第一件事就是学习如何找到有待解决的问题,有待于做出反馈的事物,有待于得到满足的需求。这需要实践,每当你看到一个问题或者需求时,试着把它写下来,或者写到blog中去。 另外,创意的产生还倚赖于知识领域间的相互交错,以及某些时候对知识的综合应用。当你看到现实生活中的一个沟渠时,想想你在线游戏中是如何穿越的呢?或者,当你需要清洁电池的酸液时,想想你是怎样去掉多余的胃酸的呢? 换句话说,创造力常常用隐喻表现出来,也就是说,你需要学习如何在当前情境和其他你所知道的事情之间发现共通点。这就是人们常说的“在事情之外思考”,你需要跳脱开具体的问题之外。这里涉及到的具体技能是“模式识别”。这个技能很难学,需要很多练习,所以创造力才那么难。 但“模式识别”是可以学习的,它就是当你说一首歌象另外一首歌,当你在给花和钓鱼船拍照时,你所作的事情。艺术就是从各种事物中发现模式的活动,这就是为什么今年你应该每天拿出一些时间给艺术――不管是音乐、摄影、摄像、素描、油画还是诗歌。 6.如何清晰地沟通 清晰地沟通首先是了解你自己想说的,然后选取某些简单的工具来说出它们。可能最难的部分是了解你想说的到底是什么。但是,花时间来确定你知道你想说什么比写一堆材料来表达它更加重要。 知道要说什么通常是结构问题。职业写作者采用一小组常用的标准结构。例如,一些作者喜欢文章(甚至是整本书!)包含着一系列的要点,就象这篇文章一样。另外一种结构,时常被称为“金字塔风格”,被记者时常采用,整个故事在第一段中就被讲出来了,其后的每一个段落提供着越来越次要的细节。 在整体结构中,作者在议论、解释、描述和定义,有时是它们的混合。它们每一个都有不同的结构。比如说议论,它将有一个结论,就是一个作者希望你相信的要点。结论得到一组前提的支持。连接前提和结论的是一组“关系词”。例如,“因而”这个词,就代表着结论。 学习如何清楚地写作,涉及到对工具的学习和实际应用。或许最好的学习结构文章的方法是学习如何在笔记辅助的情况下进行演讲。这将迫使你选择一个清楚的结构(一个你能记得住的结构!),确保它们被直白清楚地应用。以后我会就此这个主题写更多的东西,现在,你可以参考KeithSpicer的书《布置》。 还有,掌握专业人员使用的写作工具。学习议论、解释、描述和定义的结构。学习使用关系词来帮助读者熟悉那些文章结构。掌握基本的语法,避免你的句子混乱不清。关于这些的信息都可以在网上找到。 然后,每天坚持练习写作吧。一种很好的方式是加入一个学生或者志愿者办的报纸,和一个团队一起、为某个受众、在一定的时间限制下写作。这将强迫你写得更快,这很有用,因为写得清晰要比写得冗长模糊更快速。如果没有现成的报纸,创办一份,或者开辟一个新闻blog。 7.学会学习 你的大脑由相互连接着的数十亿神经细胞组成。学习,本质上就是形成一组组的神经细胞连接。无论你是在学数学,还是在凝视天空时,神经细胞连接都在形成,因此,你的大脑总是在学习。学习的区别在于你怎样学习。 当你学习时,你试图在大脑中创建连接的模式。你在试图将脑神经元连接起来,并加强那些连接。这可以通过重复成组的行为和经历来实现。学习是一个不断练习和重复的过程。 所以,学习任何事情――从“2+2=4”到量子力学理论,你需要一次又一次重复,以期发展脑神经的连接。有时人们通过重复大声朗读来学习――这种机械的学习在不久前还很普遍。在听别人谈话时做笔记也不错,因为你听了一次,然后当你将它们记下来时你重复了一次。 想想学习如何投掷棒球。有人可以解释这个动作的任何细节,你也能够理解所有这些,但在熟练掌握之前,你依然需要将棒球投掷上数千次。你需要象增强你的肌肉一样,加强你脑神经的连接。 有些人认为学习就是记住一些事实。有时是这样。但学习更象是识别而非记忆。因为你正在试图建立神经细胞的网络,最好学习一个连接的整体而不是没有连接的部分,因为你在一个领域学习的连接的整体具有你在另外一个领域已经知道的相同的模式。在一个领域的学习,在认识模式上变得很重要。 有时我们使用的模式非常人工化,就像在'every good boy deservesfudge中一样。在另外一些情况下,更加有用的是,模式与自然法则、逻辑和数学原理、历史潮流、事务如何象整体一样工作等诸如此类的东西相关。画画常常帮助人们发现模式,这也就是为什么脑图和概念图如此流行的原因。 事实上,你应该将数学、历史、科学和机械的学习看作是对原型的学习,也就是需要你一次又一次认知的基本模式的学习。这意味着,当你学这些学科时,你应该问“模式是什么”,而不仅仅是“事实是什么”。问这个问题,实际上会使这些学科更容易学习。 学会学习和学习别的事情是一样,需要练习。你需要每天学东西,学习字典里随机找的一个词,或者随机找来的一个维基百科条目。学这些时,别简单的孤立学习它们,寻找模式:它是否能符合你已知道的某个模式?它是否是你过去曾见过的类型?通过有些方式把这些词或者概念嵌入到你已有的知识中去,比如,写一个包含它的blog帖子,或者画一幅画解释它。 在任何时刻都要去思考你如何学习和学习什么。记住,你总是在学习,这意味着你需要询问:当你看电视、购物、驾车、打棒球时,你在学什么?何种类型的模式正在被创造?何种类型的模式正在被加强?你如何能掌控这个过程? 8.如何保持健康 从实际出发,保持健康包含两个要素:1)最大限度地减少在疾病和毒素下的暴露2)保养我们的肌体。 最大限度减少暴露在疾病和毒素下,主要是一个清洁和秩序的问题。简单的事情如把甲醇存放到车库,而不是厨房的橱柜,可以最大限度减少意外中毒的危险。保持炊具表面洁净,将食物彻底蒸煮减少细菌感染。经常洗手可以阻止人类传染病菌和疾病的传播。 正是由于类似的原因,一些教育中的热点问题,就围绕着如何警示人们避免暴露在疾病和毒素下。如果你与另一个人有过身体接触,你将可能帮助疾病传播,所以,要穿戴防护。象饮用饮料、食用富含脂肪的食物、吸烟、吸毒是典型的将毒素带入身体的行为,尽量少接触, 保持个人身体健康可能更加重要,因为对健康的主要威胁,通常与身体机能下降有关。应该学习如何保证适当的营养和适当的体育锻炼,并多多实践。就算你不打算成为一个健康的偏执者(谁会这样呢?),了解哪些食物和哪些行为对身体有益,无疑是有用的。培养食用健康食品和练习有益行为的良好习惯。 每天采用某种形式积极运动,骑车去上班或上学,步行一英里,作一项运动,或者锻炼。另外,每天保证食用至少一餐包含对你的健康“有益”的食物(例如包含蛋白质、矿物质等营养),如肉类、蔬菜,或者大豆、水果等。如果你的学校没有提供适当的运动和营养,向他们要求!如果你生病或处于饥饿状态,你无法学习任何东西!否则,努力去建立一种替代性计划,在中午时去寻找一份工作。 最后记住:你永远不用去证明保护你自己的生命和健康的重要性。如果你不想作,因为你认为那是不安全的,那么你有绝对的权力拒绝做它。结果,任何的结果,都要好过在这上面妥协。 9.如何使你更有价值 或许说整个社会都在共谋让你对自己感觉不好有点愤世嫉俗了,但它未必完全不正确。广告商使你感到不好所以你会买他们的产品,政治家使你感到自己无助所以你会依靠他们的政策和计划,甚至你的朋友和熟人会试图使你怀疑自己,以便谋得和你竞争中的优势。 你可以拥有世界上所有的知识和技能,但如果你无法确信自己有能力使用它们,它们就是毫无意义的。这就象你拥有一辆Lamborghini跑车,但没有驾驶执照一样。它停在车道上熠熠生辉,但除非你能够将它开动起来,否则你不会得到任何价值。 使你自己有价值,部分是个人发展问题,部分是选择问题。为了使你自己有价值,你需要感受到你值这个价值。事实上,你的确值这个价值,但是帮助你确认这点的方式是实现某些目标、学习某些技能,或者赢得某种声望。为了使你自己有价值,你还必须告诉自己“我很有价值!”。 这点很重要。我们如何看待自己就象其他事情一样是需要学习的。如果某人一遍又一遍告诉你你很没用,如果你不作任何反应,那么你会逐渐相信自己确实无用,因为它将导致“你是无用的”脑神经连接的形成。但如果你重复,相信,并按照这样的方式一遍又一遍对自己说“我是有价值的!”,那就将会是你深信不疑的东西。 使你自己有价值到底指什么呢?它代表很多。例如,它是一种信念:你确实足够好,以至于有一个态度、一种声音、一个说法证明你的贡献是有效的。它也可以是一种观点:你是能干的,你能够学习新的事物,并有创造力。它是你的独立能力,你的个人福利不依赖于某个特殊的个人或者组织,你能够自立,按照自己的方式去独立决定如何过你的生活。 所有这些都是你的权利。但是你并不是先天就被赋予了它们。你必须争取,通过你的坚信不疑(不管别人怎么说),通过你的自我努力。 你的学校没有任何一个课程教这个,甚至可能积极地试图破坏你的自我努力和自尊。你要对此保持警惕)所以你必须为你的自我价值负起责来。 每天这样去作:告诉你自己,你很聪明,你很酷,你很强壮,你很好,你可以成为任何你想成为的人。早晨,大声地讲出来――如果有必要,可以在淋浴时的水声中讲出来,一定要讲!然后,去实践这些品质。作填字游戏变得更聪明,穿出你自己的时尚风格以使自己变酷,去作某件你告诉自己你会去作的事,让自己变得更强壮。行善事让自己变得更好。 10.如何生活得有意义 这可能是所有事情中最难学的,也是最少被教授的。 事实上,有意义地生活是几件事情的组合。某种意义上来说,它指你对某些目的或者目标的奉献,但它也指你对现时现地的感恩和奉献。最后,它是认识到你在世界上的位置。你的意义是必须由你自己来创造的。 太多人们活到底也不知自己为何而活。他们追求赚钱再赚钱,或者把自己弄出名,或掌握权势,无论自己是否实现这些目标,他们发现生活都空虚而无意义。这是因为他们混淆了途径和结果――金钱、名望和权力是人们为了做值得做的事情才去追求的东西。 什么值得去作呢?这由你自己来决定。我选择贡献自己的生命去帮助人们获得教育。其他人则选择了追求治愈疾病、探索太空、敬拜上帝、建立家庭、设计汽车,或者是去获得启迪。 如果你还无法确定什么值得作,某些人将替你作出决定。在你生命中的某个时刻,你将发现,你一点都没有做那些值得做的事情。所以,今天,请你花费一些时间,思考一下到底什么才是值得去做的事情。你可以明天就改变你的想法。但至少你已开始要将你自己引导到某些地方。 第二件事是有时被人们称为“活在现下”的想法。这本质上是一种掌控自己想法的观点。你的想法并不能给予你力量,唯一起作用的是此时此刻。如果你想到什么,比如希望、失败、畏惧等,这些想法都不会伤害你,由你自己来决定你到底有多相信这些想法。 这个问题的另一面是:你此刻作的事情,就是你最想作的事情。现在你或许会想:“不可能啊!我宁可现在在Malibu海滩!”但是,如果你真的想去Malibu海滩,你应该已在那里了。你之所以没有去的原因是因为你选择了生活中另外一些更优先的东西:你的家庭、你的工作,你的国家。 一旦你认识到你有能力选择你所作的,你将认识到,你有能力选择后果。那意味着,结果,甚至是坏的结果,在很大程度上来说也是一种选择。 这个理解极具革命性。想一想吧,对读者而言,真正有意义的是,我此时最想作的事情是写下这篇文章让你――是的,让你来阅读。更令人惊奇的是,作为一个作者,我知道有一件事你最想作,甚至比去Malibu海滩更加想作,那就是阅读你自己的文字。这促使我想去写下一些有意义的东西,它将赋予我的生命意义。
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测试一下升级后的论坛发主帖有没有问题 顺便转篇我觉得很好的文章过来 原文的地址在国内的话需要代理才能上,也一并转起来吧。。。 Things You Really Need to Learn Guy Kawasaki last week wrotean item describing 'ten things you should learn this school year' inwhich readers were advised to learn how to write five sentence emails,create powerpoint slides, and survive boring meetings. It was, to myview, advice on how to be a business toady. My view is that people areworth more than that, that pleasing your boss should be the least ofyour concerns, and that genuine learning means something more than howto succeed in a business environment. But what should you learn?Your school will try to teach you facts, which you'll need to pass thetest but which are otherwise useless. In passing you may learn someuseful skills, like literacy, which you should cultivate. But GuyKawasaki is right in at least this: schools won't teach you the thingsyou really need to learn in order to be successful, either in business (whether or not you choose to live life as a toady) or in life. Here,then, is my list. This is, in my view, what you need to learn in orderto be successful. Moreover, it is something you can start to learn this year,no matter what grade you're in, no matter how old you are. I couldobviously write much more on each of these topics. But take this as astarting point, follow the suggestions, and learn the rest foryourself. And to educators, I ask, if you are not teaching these thingsin your classes, why are you not? 1. How to predict consequences Themost common utterance at the scene of a disaster is, "I neverthought..." The fact is, most people are very bad at predictingconsquences, and schools never seem to think to teach them how toimprove. The prediction of consequences is part science, partmathematics, and part visualization. It is essentially the ability tocreate a mental model imaging the service of events that would follow,"what would likely happen if...?" The danger in such situationsis focusing on what you want to happen rather than what might happeninstead. When preparing to jump across a gap, for example, you mayvisualize yourself landing on the other side. This is good; it leads tosuccessful jumping. But you need also to visualize not landing on the other side. What would happen then? Have you even contemplated the likely outcome of a 40 meter fall? Thisis where the math and science come in. You need to compare the currentsituation with your past experience and calculate the proabilities ofdifferent outcomes. If, for example, you are looking at a 5 meter gap,you should be asking, "How many times have I successfully jumped 5meters? How many times have I failed?" If you don't know, you shouldknow enough to attempt a test jump over level ground. Peopledon't think ahead. But while you are in school, you should always betaking the opportunity to ask yourself, "what will happen next?" Watchsituations and interactions unfold in the environment around you andtry to predict the outcome. Write down or blog your predictions. Withpractice, you will become expert at predicting consequences. Evenmore interestingly, over time, you will begin to observe patterns andgeneralities, things that make consequences even easier to predict.Things fall, for example. Glass breaks. People get mad when you insultthem. Hot things will be dropped. Dogs sometimes bite. The bus (ortrain) is sometimes late. These sorts of generalizations - often knownas 'common sense' - will help you avoid unexpected, and sometimesdamaging, consequences. 2. How to read Oddly, by this I do not mean 'literacy' in the traditional sense, but rather, how to look at some text and to understand,in a deep way, what is being asserted (this also applies to audio andvideo, but grounding yourself in text will transfer relatively easily,if incompletely, to other domains). The four major types ofwriting are: description, argument, explanation and definition. Youshould learn to recognize these different types of writing by learningto watch for indicators or keywords. Then,you should learn how sentences are joined together to form these typesof writing. For example, an argument will have two major parts, apremise and a conclusion. The conclusion is the point the author istrying to make, and it should be identified with an indicator (such asthe words 'therefore', 'so', or 'consequently', for example). Alot of writing is fill - wasted words intended to make the author lookgood, to distract your attention, or to simply fill more space. Beingable to cut through the crap and get straight to what is actually beingsaid, without being distracted, is an important skill. Though your school will never teach you this, find a basic book on informal logic (it will have a title like 'critical thinking'or something like that). Look in the book for argument forms andindicator words (most of these books don't cover the other three typesof writing) and practice spotting these words in text and in what theteacher says in class. Every day, focus on a specific indicator wordand watch how it is used in practice. 3. How to distinguish truth from fiction Ihave written extensively on this elsewhere, nonetheless, this remainsan area schools to a large degree ignore. Sometimes I suspect it isbecause teachers feel their students must absorb knowledgeuncritically; if they are questioning everything the teacher saysthey'll never learn! The first thing to learn is to actullyquestion what you are told, what you read, and what you see ontelevision. Do not simply accept what you are told. Always ask, how canyou know that this is true? What evidence would lead you to believethat it is false? I have written several things to help you with this, including my Guide to the Logical Fallacies, and my article on How to Evaluate Websites.These principles are more widely applicable. For example, when yourboss says something to you, apply the same test. You may be surprisedat how much your boss says to you that is simply not true! Everyday, subject at least one piece of information (a newspaper column, ablog post, a classroom lecture) to thorough scrutiny. Analyze eachsentence, analyze every word, and ask yourself what you are expected tobelieve and how you are expected to feel. Then ask whether you havesufficient reason to believe and feel this way, or whether you arebeing manipulated. 4. How to empathize Mostpeople live in their own world, and for the most part, that's OK. Butit is important to at least recognize that there are other people, andthat they live in their own world as well. This will save you from theerror of assuming that everyone else is like you. And even moreimportantly, this will allow other people to become a surprising sourceof new knowledge and insight. Part of this process involvesseeing things through someone else's eyes. A person may be, quiteliterally, in a different place. They might not see what you see, andmay have seen things you didn't see. Being able to understand how thischange in perspective may change what they believe is important. Buteven more significantly, you need to be able to imagine how otherpeople feel. This mans that you have to create a mental model of theother person's thoughts and feelings in your own mind, and to placeyourself in that model. This is best done by imagining that you are the other person, and then placing yourself into a situation. Probablythe best way to learn how to do this is to study drama (by that I don'tmean studying Shakespeare, I mean learning how to act in plays). Sadly,schools don't include this as part of the core curriculum. So instead,you will need to study subjects like religion and psychology. Schoolsdon't really include these either. So make sure you spend at least sometime in different role-playing games (RPGs) every day and practicebeing someone else, with different beliefs and motivations. Whenyou are empathetic you will begin to seek out and understand ways thathelp bridge the gap between you and other people. Being polite andconsiderate, for example, will become more important to you. You willbe able to feel someone'shurt if you are rude to them. In the same way, it will become moreimportant to be honest, because you will begin to see how transparentyour lies are, and how offensive it feels to be thought of as someonewho is that easily fooled. Empathy isn't some sort of bargain. It isn't the application of the Golden Rule. It is a genuinefeeling in yourself that operates in synch with the other person, a wayof accessing their inner mental states through the sympatheticoperation of your own mental states. You are polite because you feel bad when you are rude; you are honest because you feel offended when you lie. You need to learn how to have this feeling, but once you have it, you will understand how empty your life was before you had it. 5. How to be creative Everybodycan be creative, and if you look at your own life you will discoverthat you are already creative in numerous ways. Humans have a naturalcapacity to be creative - that's how our minds work - and with practicecan become very good at it. The trick is to understand howcreativity works. Sometimes people think that creative ideas spring outof nothing (like the proverbial 'blank page' staring back at thewriter) but creativity is in fact the result of using and manipulatingyour knowledge in certain ways. Genuine creativity is almostalways a response to something. This article, for example, was writtenin response to an article on the same subject that I thought was notwell thought out. Creativity also arises in response to a specificproblem: how to rescue a cat, how to cross a gap, how to hang laundry.So, in order to be creative, the first thing to do is to learn to lookfor problems to solve, things that merit a response, needs that need tobe filled. This takes practice (try writing it down, or blogging it,every time you see a problem or need). In addition, creativityinvolves a transfer of knowledge from one domain to another domain, andsometimes a manipulation of that knowledge. When you see a gap in reallife, how did you cross a similar gap in an online game? Or, if youneed to clean up battery acid, how did you get rid of excess acid inyour stomach? Creativity, in other words, often operates by metaphor, which means you need to learn how to find things in commonbetween the current situation and other things you know. This is whatis typically meant by 'thinking outside the box' - you want to go to outside the domain of the current problem. And the particular skill involved is pattern recognition. This skill is hard to learn, and requires a lot of practice, which is why creativity is hard. But pattern recognition canbe learned - it's what you are doing when you say one song is similarto another, or when you are taking photographs of, say, flowers orfishing boats. The arts very often involve finding patterns in things,which is why, this year, you should devote some time every day to anart - music, photography, video, drawing, painting or poetry. 6. How to communicate clearly Communicatingclearly is most of all a matter of knowing what you want to say, andthen employing some simple tools in order to say it. Probably thehardest part of this is knowing what you want to say. But it is betterto spend time being sure you understand what you mean than to write abunch of stuff trying to make it more or less clear. Knowingwhat to say is often a matter of structure. Professional writers employa small set of fairly standard structures. For example, some writersprefer articles (or even whole books!) consisting of a list of points,like this article. Another structure, often called 'pyramid style', isemployed by journalists - the entire story is told in the firstparagraph, and each paragraph thereafter offers less and less importantdetails. Inside this overall structure, writers providearguments, explanations, descriptions or definitions, sometimes incombination. Each of these has a distinctive structure. An argument,for example, will have a conclusion, a point the writer wants you tobelieve. The conclusion will be supported by a set of premises. Linkingthe premises and the conclusion will be a set of indicators. The word 'therefore', for example, points to the conclusion. Learningto write clearly is a matter of learning about the tools, and thenpractice in their application. Probably the best way to learn how tostructure your writing is to learn how to give speeches without notes.This will force you to employ a clear structure (one you can remember!) and to keep it straightforward. I will write more on this, but for now, check out Keith Spicer's book, Winging It. Additionally,master the tools the professionals use. Learn the structure ofarguments, explanations, descriptions and definitions. Learn theindicator words used to help readers navigate those structures. Masterbasic grammar, so your sentences are unambiguous. Information on all ofthese can be found online. Then practice your writing every day.A good way to practice is to join a student or volunteer newspaper -writing with a team, for an audience, against a deadline. It will forceyou to work more quickly, which is useful, because it is faster towrite clearly than to write poorly. If no newspaper exists, create one,or start up a news blog. 7. How to Learn Your brain consists of billions of neural cellsthat are connected to each other. To learn is essentially to form setsof those connections. Your brain is always learning, whether you arestudying mathematics or staring at the sky, because these connectionsare always forming. The difference in what you learn lies in how youlearn. When you learn, you are trying to create patterns of connectivityin your brain. You are trying to connect neurons together, and tostrengthen that connection. This is accomplished by repeating sets ofbehaviours or experiences. Learning is a matter of practice andrepetition. Thus, when learning anything - from '2+2=4' to theprinciples of quantuum mechanics - you need to repeat it over and over,in order to grow this neural connection. Sometimes people learn byrepeating the words aloud - this form of rote learning was popular notso long ago. Taking notes when someone talks is also good, because youhear it once, and then repeat it when you write it down. Thinkabout learning how to throw a baseball. Someone can explain everythingabout it, and you can understand all of that, but you still have tothrow the ball several thousand times before you get good at it. Youhave to grow your neural connections in just the same way you grow yourmuscles. Some people think of learning as remembering sets of facts. It can be that, sometimes, but learning is more like recognition than remembering. Because you are trying to build networks of neural cells, it is better to learn a connected whole rather than unconnected parts, where the connected whole you are learning in one domain has the same patternas a connected whole you already know in another domain. Learning inone domain, then, becomes a matter of recognizing that pattern. Sometimes the patterns we use are very artificial, as in 'every good boy deserves fudge'(the sentence helps us remember musical notes). In other cases, andmore usefully, the pattern is related to the laws of nature, logical ormathematical principles, the flow of history, how something works as awhole, or something like that. Drawing pictures often helps people findpatterns (which is why mind-maps and concept maps are popular). Indeed, you should view the study of mathematics, history, science and mechanics as the study of archetypes,basic patterns that you will recognize over and over. But this meansthat, when you study these disciplines, you should be asking, "what isthe pattern" (and not merely "what are the facts"). And asking thisquestion will actually make these disciplines easier to learn. Learningto learn is the same as learning anything else. It takes practice. Youshould try to learn something every day - a random word in thedictionary, or a random Wikipedia entry. When learning this item, donot simply learn it in isolation, but look for patterns - does it fitinto a pattern you already know? Is it a type of thing you have seenbefore? Embed this word or concept into your existing knowledge byusing it in some way - write a blog post containing it, or draw apicture explaining it. Think, always, about how you are learning and what you are learning at any given moment. Remember, you are alwayslearning - which means you need to ask, what are you learning when youare watching television, going shopping, driving the car, playingbaseball? What sorts of patterns are being created? What sorts ofpatterns are being reinforced? How can you take control of this process? 8. How to stay healthy Asa matter of practical consideration, the maintenance of your healthinvolves two major components: minimizing exposure to disease ortoxins, and maintenance of the physical body. Minimizingexposure to disease and toxins is mostly a matter of cleanliness andorder. Simple things - like keeping the wood alcohol in the garage, andnot the kitchen cupboard - minimize the risk of accidental poisoning.Cleaning cooking surfaces and cooking food completely reduces the riskof bacterial contamination. Washing your hands regularly preventstransmission of human borne viruses and diseases. In a similarmanner, some of the hot-button issues in education today areessentially issues about how to warn against exposure to diseases andtoxins. In a nutshell: if you have physical intercourse with anotherperson you are facilitating the transmission of disease, so wearprotection. Activities such as drinking, eating fatty foods, smoking,and taking drugs are essentially the introduction of toxins into yoursystem, so do it in moderation, and where the toxins are significant,don't do it at all. Personal maintenance is probably even moreimportant, as the major threats to health are generally those relatedto physical deterioration. The subjects of proper nutrition and properexercise should be learned and practiced. Even if you do not become ahealth freak (and who does?) it is nonetheless useful to know whatfoods and types of actions are beneficial, and to create a habit ofeating good foods and practicing beneficial actions. Every day,seek to be active in some way - cycle to work or school, walk a mile,play a sport, or exercise. In addition, every day, seek to eat at leastone meal that is 'good for you', that consists of protein and minerals(like meat and vegetables, or soy and fruit). If your school is notfacilitating proper exercise and nutrition, demand them! You can'tlearn anything if you're sick and hungry! Otherwise, seek to establishan alternative program of your own, to be employed at noonhours. Finally,remember: you never have to justify protecting your own life andhealth. If you do not want to do something because you think it isunsafe, then it is your absolute right to refuse to do it. Theconsequences - any consequences - are better than giving in on this. 9. How to value yourself Itis perhaps cynical to say that society is a giant conspiracy to get youto feel badly about yourself, but it wouldn't be completely inaccurateeither. Advertisers make you feel badly so you'll buy their product,politicians make you feel incapable so you'll depend on their policiesand programs, even your friends and acquaintances may seek to make youdoubt yourself in order to seek an edge in a competition. Youcan have all the knowledge and skills in the world, but they aremeaningless if you do not feel personally empowered to use them; it'slike owning a Lamborghiniand not having a driver's license. It looks shiny in the driveway, butyour not really getting any value out of it unless you take it out fora spin. Valuing yourself is partially a matter of personaldevelopment, and partially a matter of choice. In order to valueyourself, you need to feel you are worth valuing. In fact, you areworth valuing, but it often helps to prove it to yourself by attainingsome objective, learning some skill, or earning some distinction. Andin order to value yourself, you have to say "I am valuable." Thisis an important point. How we think about ourselves is as much a matterof learning as anything else. If somebody tells you that you areworthless over and over, and if you do nothing to counteract that, thenyou will come to believe you are worthless, because that'show your neural connections will form. But if you repeat, and believe,and behave in such a way as to say to yourself over and over, I am valuable, then that's what you will come to believe. What is it to value yourself? It's actually many things. For example, it's the belief that you are good enough to have an opinion, have a voice, and have a say, that your contributions do matter. It's the belief that you are capable, that you can learn to do new things and to be creative. It is your ability to be independent, and to not rely on some particular person or institution for personal well-being, and autonomous, capable of making your own decisions and living your live in your own way. All of these things are yours by right. But they will never be given to you. You have to take them, by actually believing in yourself (no matter what anyone says) and by actually being autonomous. Yourschool doesn't have a class in this (and may even be actively trying toundermine your autonomy and self-esteem; watch out for this). So youhave to take charge of your own sense of self-worth. Do it everyday. Tell yourself that you are smart, you are cool, you are strong,you are good, and whatever else you want to be. Say it out loud, in themorning - hidden in the noise of the shower, if need be, but say it. Then, practice these attributes. Be smart by (say) solving a crossword puzzle. Be cool by making your own fashion statement. Be strong by doing something you said yo yourself you were going to do. Be good by doing a good deed. And every time you do it, remind yourself that you have, in fact, done it. 10. How to live meaningfully This is probably the hardest thing of all to learn, and the least taught. Livingmeaningfully is actually a combination of several things. It is, in onesense, your dedication to some purpose or goal. But it is also yoursense of appreciation and dedication to the here and now. And finally,it is the realization that your place in the world, yourmeaningfulness, is something you must create for yourself. Toomany people live for no reason at all. They seek to make more and moremoney, or they seek to make themselves famous, or to become powerful,and whether or not they attain these objectives, they find their livesempty and meaningless. This is because they have confused means andends - money, fame and power are things people seek in order to do whatis worth doing. Whatis worth doing? That is up to you to decide. I have chosen to dedicatemy life to helping people obtain an education. Others seek to curediseases, to explore space, to worship God, to raise a family, todesign cars, or to attain enlightenment. If you don't decidewhat is worth doing, someone will decide for you, and at some point inyour life you will realize that you haven't done what is worth doing atall. So spend some time, today, thinking about what is worth doing. Youcan change your mind tomorrow. But begin, at least, to guide yourself somewhere. The second thing is sometimes thought of as 'living in the moment'. It is essentially an understanding that you control your thoughts.Your thoughts have no power over you; the only thing that matters atall is this present moment. If you think about something - some hope,some failure, some fear - that thought cannot hurt you, and you choose how much or how little to trust that thought. Another aspect of this is the following: what you are doing right now is the thing that you most want to do. Now you may be thinking, "No way! I'd rather be on Malibu Beach!" But if you really wanted to be on Malibu Beach, you'd be there. The reason you are not is because you have chosen other priorities in your life - to your family, to your job, to your country. Whenyou realize you have the power to choose what you are doing, yourealize you have the power to choose the consequences. Which means thatconsequences - even bad consequences - are for the most part a matterof choice. That said, this understanding is very liberating. Think about it, as a reader - what it means is that what I most wanted to do with my time right now is to write this article so that you - yes, you- would read it. And even more amazingly, I know, as a writer, that thething you most want to do right now, even more than you want to be inMalibu, is to read my words. It makes me want to write something meaningful - and it gives me a way to put meaning into my life. [ 本帖最后由 neofacenew 于 2006-11-17 09:36 编辑 ]

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很好的文章,工作了后才发现大学里大把的时光都浪费 了,后悔啊
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的确,很好的文章~~ - -+
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